DRAMA

As I get older I get to experience different kinds of drama. Sometimes it's with in my own family and sometimes it extends to further out to different branches of my family. Drama with in your family comes and goes, sure it can be awkward for awhile but everyone loves each other so you move on. The drama I really hate is the stuff that come from work, school, etc.

I had some drama at the preschool the other day that was unsettling to me. I realized that if everybody would just use their words it wouldn't be drama. People start to get upset and they don't hear what you are saying. Nor do they tell you what is really upsetting them.

I really wish that anytime something was upsetting we could all just use our words. I would appreciate the people around me saying "hey I don't like that" or "that hurts my feelings". Instead for what ever reason we skate around not communicating and we end up not liking people.

Yesterday I had my hair done, I had in my mind the hairdresser taking off an inch to a inch and a half. She took off over 3 inches. After I saw how much she was cutting I got upset. It ruined the rest of the three hours I spent there. I do love how my color turned out. But I am considering finding someone new who wont just cut how they want to. What I really should have done is tell her right away. "You cut too much off and I am upset." I should have used my words. But now I have this internal struggle with my feelings and the other person has no clue.

I wish that anytime I upset a person they would just tell me. I think I would be a better person for knowing how I have bothered someone. I wish I could as well communicate with those people who upset me.

Now to avoid some DRAMA I am going to go clean James' room when he is at school. This is the only way to get rid of broken toys without drama.